November 08, 2004

A Trying Week

The last few days have been quite trying, I must admit. I was most disappointed by the election results—even more so by *why* people apparently voted for Bush than by the fact that he won. If it were a true disagreement over policy, the role of government in society, etc., that would be one thing—but according to the polls, most people didn’t think he was doing that great a job on just about everything, but they voted for him in spite of that because they think he shares their “traditional moral values”. That I completely fail to understand. Have they no brain? No critical thinking skills? I could respect a clear argument that simply relied on values that differed from mine, but this is an abdication of responsibility.

Wednesday morning I went to see Jessica, Eamon, and Jack (her nephew), as usual. Eamon was in a most awful mood—teething, we discovered later—and it rubbed off on me a bit. The day did not improve much from there due to other things. However, coincidentally or not, Kayleigh did learn to blow wonderful raspberries that day and has continued practicing at length since then.

Last Sunday and today were nice as they began with a 3-mile walk around Town Lake. Jonathan is racking up miles towards his marathon, which he needs to complete by the end of February.

This evening I went out to get a backless booster car seat for Jonathan so that we can move him to the back bench while Joy & Brian are here to save them having to crawl back there (it’s not that easy). Babies ‘R’ Us didn’t have it, although they did sell it on their web site, so I had to go to Target. While there, someone STOLE my wallet out of the shopping cart. NOT the way I wished to end my weekend. As soon as I got home I called to cancel my cards—the last one I called, Discover, had 3 charges on it already. Dale called to make the police report for me, and then I called the first place where the person had charged things (a game store on North Lamar). I spoke with the person who handled the transaction, and he said he remembered the woman well and that he’d had a bad feeling about it; he was worried about losing his job since he didn’t do a couple of things he was supposed to do. One of those things was ask for a driver’s license when someone presents a credit card—it would have taken care of this as the woman using my card is black! My shiny white face staring up from the driver’s license would have put a stop to her little spree. At least I’m not liable for any of it. But now when I wanted to do nothing tomorrow but go to the grocery store (Joy and Brian arrive in the late afternoon), I’m going to have to go get a new driver’s license, a temporary debit card, and also deal with a restaurant that initally charged us for another table’s bill and then, even though the waiter took my credit card so that he could credit the mistake—nothing got credited back to our account! Oh, the incompetency that abounds in the world today.

In an attempt to finish on a nice note, Jonathan, Kayleigh, and I had a wonderful time yesterday at the Austin Celtic Festival down on Town Lake. (I would put a hyperlink to the site, but I can’t because the batteries in my mouse have run out and I’m having to do everything right now via keyboard navigation; adding links is just too much.) We went down there b/c Jessica & Eamon were there, and we stayed a couple of hours after they headed out. The last thing we did was listen to a fantastic trio—Jonathan was dancing about, and even Kayleigh was excited—she was on me in the sling, squealing at Jonathan and biffing me with her arms, nearly in time with the music. We had fun!

Posted by elizabeth at November 8, 2004 12:16 AM
Comments

That kind of week really tests the most patient of people. I hope this next week is much better!

I always write on the back of my credit cards "Ask for ID." It doesn't do much good--I can count on one hand the number of cashiers that have actually asked me for my ID this year. Plus, gas stations and many places like groceries stores and Target just have you swipe your own card--where's the security check in that? As awful as it was to have your wallet stolen, I'm glad she didn't get your keys, too.

Posted by: meredith o on November 8, 2004 06:04 AM

When I am in places like Target and Walmart, I keep a very close watch on my purse. Mother even has me paranoid enough to seat belt my purse to the cart. I have heard so many horror stories about theives in places like that. Another trick they use is to solicit advice on a product and distract you from your cart while an accomplice works his majic on your belongings. I'm glad you posted this. I know you are going to be a lot more attentive...but now all our loved ones that reads this will be more alert during this holiday season. It really makes me angry when I hear things like this happening to people I love.

Posted by: Auntie Rita on November 8, 2004 08:44 AM

Oh, geez. I wrote "patient" instead of "patience" in my previous comment. That's what I get for trying to type anything at 6 in the morning.

I should add that someone stole my cell phone at Wal-Mart a few years ago--he or she used it to call Mexico before I called Sprint to report the phone stolen. Rita makes a good point.

Posted by: meredith o on November 8, 2004 09:51 AM

How frustrating that must be to have your wallet stolen! Just this past week, I had misplaced my purse with my wallet in it. I had to go to the gynecologist for my yearly appointment (actually, it has been closer to fifteen years) and I couldn't find my purse anywhere. I was on the verge of leaving without my purse when I thought of one more place to look...Thank goodness it was in the last place I looked!

After reading about your misfortune, I took all my credit cards out of my purse and wrote all the account and customer service numbers to be kept in a safe place....just in case it should ever happen to me.

Posted by: Theresa on November 8, 2004 10:54 PM

Meredith O...That's okay that you mispelled "patient for patience", because I just caught another error by Auntie Rita! She spelled "theives" instead of "thieves". :)

Posted by: Theresa on November 8, 2004 11:00 PM

Reminds me of the time my debit card info and password were stolen from a Walgreen's debit machine. They cleaned me out but I was liable for none of it.

Sadly I forget things all the time. Sooner or later I figure out where I left them. Although I haven't truly lost something in a long time, I do have a sort of Zen approach. lose a phone/ Get a new phone. etc. It still sucks..but at least I get a new phone.

Posted by: Tia Meredith on November 9, 2004 05:56 PM

Wait a minute....Where IS my phone?

Posted by: Tia Meredith on November 9, 2004 05:56 PM

Theresa, if you are going to correct my misspelled words, you missed one. I spelled magic, m-a-j-i-c. Just thought you would want to know.

Posted by: Auntie Rita on November 9, 2004 06:54 PM

Rita, you are so right! How did I miss that one?? Excuse the pun, but maybe I was just gleeful I caught thieves.

Posted by: Theresa on November 9, 2004 10:58 PM

I had my wallet stolen out of my purse in Wal-Mart. It was in the shopping cart, but I was holding onto the strap. One guy distracted me asking questions about the products on the shelf in front of me. His partner unzipped my purse and slipped the wallet out. I immediately went home and cancelled everything, closed bank accounts, etc. If you haven't done it yet, call the three credit bureaus and put a fraud alert on your account, so that they can't get new credit in your name. Also, one of my credit cards offers monitoring the credit bureau reports. They notify me anytime any credit is set up in my name. That gives me some peace of mind. Good luck in keeping your identify safe.

Posted by: Laurel on November 17, 2004 12:59 AM
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